diff --git a/app/views/contacts/_aspect_dropdown.html.haml b/app/views/contacts/_aspect_dropdown.html.haml
index 29bb8a7f7..22ee0d9d5 100644
--- a/app/views/contacts/_aspect_dropdown.html.haml
+++ b/app/views/contacts/_aspect_dropdown.html.haml
@@ -12,7 +12,7 @@
       - for aspect in @all_aspects
         = aspect_dropdown_list_item(aspect, contact, person)
               
-      - if defined?(@aspect) && ( @aspect == :profile || @aspect == :tag)
+      - if defined?(@aspect) && ( @aspect == :profile || @aspect == :tag || @aspect == :search)
         %li.newItem
           .add_aspect
             = link_to "Add a new aspect", new_aspect_path(:person_id => person.id), :rel => 'facebox'
diff --git a/app/views/people/_relationship_action.haml b/app/views/people/_relationship_action.haml
index 25d457343..5f98c77cd 100644
--- a/app/views/people/_relationship_action.haml
+++ b/app/views/people/_relationship_action.haml
@@ -1,11 +1,6 @@
-- if person.owner_id == current_user.id
+- unless person == current_user.person
+  - contact = current_user.contacts.find_by_person_id(person.id)
+  - contact ||= Contact.new(:person => person)
+  = render 'contacts/aspect_dropdown', :contact => contact, :person => person, :hang => 'left'
+-else
   = t('people.person.thats_you')
-- elsif contact && contact.mutual
-  = t('people.person.already_connected')
-- else
-  = link_to t('people.show.start_sharing'),
-    {:controller => "contacts",
-    :action => "new",
-    :person_id => person.id},
-    :class => 'button',
-    :rel => 'facebox'