diff --git a/lib/diaspora/user/friending.rb b/lib/diaspora/user/friending.rb
index db3a30c4d..472926346 100644
--- a/lib/diaspora/user/friending.rb
+++ b/lib/diaspora/user/friending.rb
@@ -140,7 +140,7 @@ module Diaspora
       end
 
       def requests_for_me
-        pending_requests.select{|req| req.person != self.person }
+        pending_requests.select{|req| req.destination_url == self.person.receive_url} 
       end
     end
   end