im in ur test stubbin ur mailers

spec/controllers/publics_controller_spec.rb

@@ -81,6 +81,9 @@ describe PublicsController do
     let!(:req) { user2.send_friend_request_to(user.person, aspect2) }
     let!(:xml) { user2.salmon(req).xml_for(user.person) }
     before do
+      deliverable = Object.new
+      deliverable.stub!(:deliver)
+      Notifier.stub!(:new_request).and_return(deliverable)
       req.delete
       user2.reload
       user2.pending_requests.count.should be 1

spec/lib/diaspora_parser_spec.rb

@@ -48,6 +48,13 @@ describe Diaspora::Parser do
       proc { user.receive xml, user2.person }.should change(StatusMessage, :count).by(-1)
     end
 
+    context "friending" do
+      before do
+        deliverable = Object.new
+        deliverable.stub!(:deliver)
+        Notifier.stub!(:new_request).and_return(deliverable)
+      end
+
       it "should create a new person upon getting a person request" do
         request = Request.instantiate(:to =>"http://www.google.com/", :from => person)
 
@@ -73,6 +80,7 @@ describe Diaspora::Parser do
         url = "http://" + request.callback_url.split("/")[2] + "/"
         Person.where(:url => url).first.id.should == original_person_id
       end
+    end
 
     it "should activate the Person if I initiated a request to that url" do
       request = user.send_friend_request_to(user3.person, aspect)