diff --git a/app/views/people/show.html.haml b/app/views/people/show.html.haml
index effc27f83..db17280af 100644
--- a/app/views/people/show.html.haml
+++ b/app/views/people/show.html.haml
@@ -22,12 +22,20 @@
   #author_info
     - unless @contact || current_user.person == @person
       .right
-        = link_to t('.start_sharing'),
-          {:controller => "people",
-          :action => "share_with",
-          :id => @person.id},
-          :class => 'share_with button',
-          :rel => 'facebox'
+        - if @incoming_request
+          = link_to t('.incoming_request', :name => truncate(@person.name, :length => 20, :separator => ' ', :omission => '')),
+            {:controller => "people",
+            :action => "share_with",
+            :id => @person.id},
+            :class => 'share_with button',
+            :rel => 'facebox'
+        -else
+          = link_to t('.start_sharing'),
+            {:controller => "people",
+            :action => "share_with",
+            :id => @person.id},
+            :class => 'share_with button',
+            :rel => 'facebox'
         - if @share_with
           = javascript_tag "$(document).ready(function() {jQuery.facebox({ ajax: '#{share_with_path(:id => @person.id)}' });});"
 
@@ -45,17 +53,6 @@
         = @person.diaspora_handle
   %hr
 
-  - unless @contact || current_user.person == @person
-    - if @incoming_request
-      .floating
-        %h3
-        = link_to t('.incoming_request'),
-          {:controller => "people",
-          :action => "share_with",
-          :id => @person.id},
-          :class => 'share_with button',
-          :rel => 'facebox'
-
   - if @posts.count > 0
     -if @post_type == :photos
       = render 'photos/index', :photos => @posts
diff --git a/app/views/people/show.mobile.haml b/app/views/people/show.mobile.haml
index b2c228855..da757958b 100644
--- a/app/views/people/show.mobile.haml
+++ b/app/views/people/show.mobile.haml
@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@
   - if @incoming_request
     .floating
       %h3
-        = t('.incoming_request')
+        = t('.incoming_request', :name => @person.name)
       %h4
         = link_to t('.return_to_aspects'), aspects_manage_path
         = t('.to_accept_or_ignore')
diff --git a/config/locales/diaspora/en.yml b/config/locales/diaspora/en.yml
index 8fe40bcf2..e2d361fc2 100644
--- a/config/locales/diaspora/en.yml
+++ b/config/locales/diaspora/en.yml
@@ -365,7 +365,7 @@ en:
           fail: "Sorry, we couldn't find %{handle}."
       show:
           no_posts: "no posts to display!"
-          incoming_request: "You have an incoming request from this person."
+          incoming_request: "%{name} wants to share with you"
           return_to_aspects: "Return to your aspects page"
           to_accept_or_ignore: "to accept or ignore it."
           does_not_exist: "Person does not exist!"