oh yeah, render nothing on update if we don't want to redirect

app/controllers/aspects_controller.rb

@@ -137,6 +137,7 @@ class AspectsController < ApplicationController
     else
       flash[:error] = I18n.t 'aspects.update.failure', :name => @aspect.name
     end
+    render :nothing => true
   end
 
   def toggle_contact_visibility