diff --git a/lib/diaspora/user/querying.rb b/lib/diaspora/user/querying.rb
index baeb0118b..788dfb9a5 100644
--- a/lib/diaspora/user/querying.rb
+++ b/lib/diaspora/user/querying.rb
@@ -64,7 +64,7 @@ module Diaspora
       end
 
       def construct_shareable_from_others_query(opts)
-        conditions = {:pending => false, :share_visibilities => {:hidden => opts[:hidden]}, :contacts => {:user_id => self.id} }
+        conditions = {:pending => false, :share_visibilities => {:hidden => opts[:hidden]}, :contacts => {:user_id => self.id, :receiving => true} }
         conditions[:type] = opts[:type] if opts.has_key?(:type)
         query = opts[:klass].joins(:contacts).where(conditions)
 
diff --git a/spec/models/user/querying_spec.rb b/spec/models/user/querying_spec.rb
index a304289c9..2101d662e 100644
--- a/spec/models/user/querying_spec.rb
+++ b/spec/models/user/querying_spec.rb
@@ -34,9 +34,10 @@ describe User do
       alice.visible_shareable_ids(Post).should include(eves_public_post.id)
     end
 
-    it "contains non-public posts from people who are following you" do
-      bobs_post = bob.post(:status_message, :text => "hello", :to => @bobs_aspect.id)
-      alice.visible_shareable_ids(Post).should include(bobs_post.id)
+    it "does not contain non-public posts from people who are following you" do
+      eve.share_with(alice.person, @eves_aspect)
+      eves_post = eve.post(:status_message, :text => "hello", :to => @eves_aspect.id)
+      alice.visible_shareable_ids(Post).should_not include(eves_post.id)
     end
 
     it "does not contain non-public posts from aspects you're not in" do